Losing Rewards

One book by a popular writer quotes Second John 8 to explain that many Christians who have served the Lord for many years will lose their rewards and crowns which they have already earned if they backslide into carnality, sensuality, or other temptations of the flesh. I am heartsick to think anything I might have earned in the way of rewards was lost because of a sin (no matter how big or small) even though the sin was confessed.

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Sin That Leads To Death

Please help me understand 1 John 5:16-17. My thoughts on this are: the sin that leads to death is blaspheming the Holy Spirit which would imply the person committing this sin is not a believer in Christ as his Savior. So praying for him to have life is not an option. But, for any other sin we see a brother committing we can pray for God to give him life (salvation?) and He will?

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Justice Or Mercy?

I’m having trouble reconciling the stories in the Old Testament where Israel stood up to her enemies and often called on the wrath of God to save them and the New Testament teaching of being kind to your enemies and turning the other cheek.

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Hearing The Voice Of The Lord

In a recent answer to a question, you discussed a time when you asked God a question about why a situation involving forgiveness turned out the way it did. You wrote that God responded to your question. My question is how does one know when they are hearing from God or receiving answers to questions directed to God?

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Seeking Forgiveness

Q. My sister in law refuses to forgive me for an argument that happened last year. I asked for forgiveness and apologized for what I did wrong, but she has never acknowledged any of her wrong-doing and refuses to speak to me. She has basically cut me out of her life.  I was just wondering where do I go from here?  I want things to be better and I want reconciliation, but she won’t have anything to do with me. Please help me. I am having a hard time with this.

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Sister-In-Law Problem

My wife’s sister is driving me nuts. She has 5 kids, but cheated on her hubby and now she’s 45 years old and lives in her mom and dad’s basement. She’s unemployed, on food stamps, etc. Do we keep being nice to her or do we get tough and say enough is enough?

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Jewish Atonement For Sin

If strict orthodox Jews don’t believe that Jesus is Messiah, then how have they/do they atone for sin, since no temple is left for sacrifices?

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Tithing On Alimony

I have recently become legally separated and have to pay my wife maintenance (alimony), I am currently tithing on my gross income, which is a financial burden. Am I supposed to tithe on the money I pay my wife? Is she supposed to tithe on the amount she receives from me?

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Mean Spirited Members

I am a believer who attends a Bible teaching church and the people claim to believe also. My problems are some of their actions. I have had some very hurtful things said and done to me and my family by some members and I am treated with Christ like love by others.

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A Marriage Counseling Question

A believing wife divorces her believing husband without biblical grounds, and then shortly remarries an unbelieving husband. I understand that through confession she can receive individual forgiveness and purification, but does that mean that God will then move to heal her marriage as well, or will her marriage remain under a curse no matter what?

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